DO “Be a guest at your own wedding. Be in the moment the day of. Even though you’ve been anticipating and planning, don’t analyze and fixate on if it’s going according to plan or on what’s coming next. Be present and enjoy the celebration as it comes. That will make the day stick best in your memory and allow you to actually enjoy it and have fun!
“[Also,] lie. Okay, that sounds really shady but what’s also shady is the fact that every florist, bakery, and vendor will charge three times as much if you mention the word ‘wedding.'”
— Piera Gelardi & Philippe von Borries, married February ’05